emotional intelligence & achievement fatigue

Why the dopamine hits stop working when you abandon your self

Here’s what’s happening neurologically + emotionally:

✧ When you're in a chronic dopamine-seeking loop (new goals, constant reward-chasing), the brain gets desensitized.

✧ Your nervous system stays in a low-level stress state (sympathetic activation) — even during success.

✧ And if you were raised to believe your worth is in your output, you may unknowingly be running a fawn-achieve pattern: productivity as safety.

✧ Emotional intelligence is the ability to detect these internal misalignments early — and course correct from within.

If you’ve been grinding without clarity:
You’re not broken.
You’re unaligned.
And it’s not a mindset fix — it’s a nervous system one.

✧ final section → keep unraveling:

you don’t need to try harder
you need to feel safer being still

✦ next → read: why reinvention feels like betrayal
✦ or go deeper → quiet prompt: what are you chasing that was never yours?